3 Proven Ways to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back and End Break Up Pain Fast

What “they” say is true in life: it is better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all. But the experience can be more than just heartbreaking, it can leave you down in the dumps for a very l-o-n-g time if you let it get to you too much. Remember, and be thankful, that you have your entire life ahead of you. So don’t sit silently in despair, instead let’s talk about some moves you can make that will guarantee you’ll be feeling better in no time, and can improve the odds of getting your ex girlfriend back significantly – if that’s want you want.

The first thing you need to do is realize that NO, you’re life is not over just because the apple of your eye is no longer around to take care of you and do things with you. Believe me, I’ve been in the position before …where I let ONE person affect and impact my life so strongly… that I was depressed for several weeks to come.

In all honesty, it was one of my first real relationships, and it took me nearly 3 months to get over it. The trick? Enjoy life. You need to take up new hobbies, take a couple night classes that interest you, join a gym… ANYTHING. Do something! But whatever you do, don’t sit there and mope! The longer you sit around feeling bad for yourself, the longer you’ll feel “normal” doing so. “Life’s dealt me a bad hand, and I accept it.” NO! Life is what you make of it, so go make it worthwhile.

And the second thing you need to do, if you’re looking to get her back into your arms is this: once you’ve effectively gotten over the break up (realized that there are more fish in the sea, and that you don’t REALLY “need” her) it’s time to show to her that you’re 100% fine without her. Make it a point to attend social gatherings and events where you know she may be, and have a ball!

Thirdly… socialize, flirt with others… absolutely enjoy yourself! (with the end goal in mind that if you want your ex back, she will have to come BACK to YOU). Don’t outright ignore her, but speak to her when spoken to. Believe me, she WILL come talk to you eventually, after you leave her wondering how it is that you are able to have such a good time without her, so soon after the break up.

Finally, now that you have learned some tips for stopping break up pain dead in it’s tracks, and can convince your ex girlfriend that by not being with you she will truly be missing out on a great opportunity, head over to my blog at http://cureheartache.com where I discuss these tips and MORE in greater detail.

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